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Are you in a healthy relationship?

Answer the questions and check your score to see if things need to change.

1.Does your partner check up on you and want to know where you are at all times?

A - Often

B - Sometimes

C - Rarely

D - Never
2.Is he/she jealous, accusing you of going off with others?

B - Sometimes

C - Rarely

A - Often

D - Never
3.Does he/she tell you that you are stupid, lazy, ugly, or other things that makes you feel bad about yourself?

D - Never

C - Rarely

B - Sometimes

A - Often
4.Does he/she call you obscene names?

C - Rarely

B - Sometimes

A - Often

D - Never
5.Does he/she tell you that no one else could ever love you or that you are worthless?

A - Often

B - Sometimes

C - Rarely

D - Never
6.Does he/she make fun of you in front of other people?

C - Rarely

A - Often

D - Never

B - Sometimes
7.Does he/she try to keep you from seeing family or friends?

B - Sometimes

A - Often

C - Rarely

D - Never
8.8. Does he/she control your money to the extent that you have to account for every penny and/or beg him/her for it?

A - Often

D - Never

C - Rarely

B - Sometimes
9.Does he/she tell you that no one would ever employ you?

C - Rarely

D - Never

A - Often

B - Sometimes
10.Does he/she ever push you, shove you against walls, or restrain you by holding you to prevent you from leaving a room?

A - Often

B - Sometimes

C - Rarely

D - Never

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